BDSM primarily centers around the concept of power exchange, and a common practice is that of pegging which has not only a strong physical component but also delivers significant emotional content. But as you might expect, Domina's skills vary greatly in their ability to delivery their silicon "mansword." Some know how to make the experience euphoric and others make it uncomfortable and perhaps even painful. (And of course some domina's who knnow how to make it pleasurable, still delivery it painfully in order to make a point!).
A sub's ability to orgasm while being pegged will vary also. Most sub 's require some form of direct penile stimulation during the pegging in order to orgasm. And domina's who employ chastity devices, sometimes do so with the intention of building a sub's sexual desire and decreasing their stimulation threshhold.
A male orgasm can be compared with a volcano, that builds and builds and then cxplodes in several bursts of decreasing power before quickly fading altogether in a way that drains the male physically, and emotionally. A female orgasm can best be described as a Tsunami which builds and then overwhelms in a series of waves, picking the entire body up with uncontrollable shaking and quivering, It is invigorating and one wants to repeat that euphoric sensation over and over.
I had been in the scene for 10 years before a fateful trrip to NYC and the dungeon of Mistress Sade (not to be confused with the current Mixtress Sade) gave me my first series of these amazing orgasms - Le Petite Mort.
As mentioned above, a male orgasm is penile based, while this alternate orgasm is prostrate based. Mistress Sade first used a silicon phalanx and then inserted a few fingers, and proceeded to turn my body into a sexual marionette as orgasm after orgasm rolled over me! This was the promised land, and something which I had never experienced in 10 years of sessioning.
How many of you enjoy being pegged? Does it feel good, or is it something you suffer through for the enjoyment of your Mistress? Have you ever experienced Le Petite Mort?